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Reminder to Live with Gratitude

Reminder to Live with Gratitude

November 18, 2013 by Shirley Enebrad Leave a Comment

The past several weeks my youngest brother has been in the hospital facing life threatening diagnoses and very scary medical treatments. The scariest thing he has had to face though is the dangers of being in a hospital. The number of errors and missteps is astounding. My brother has been very stoic and calm. His poor wife on the other hand is an exhausted frightened woman. His kids are terrified. I am 3,000 miles away and it has been very difficult to sit around waiting for test results and reports on what the medical professionals have done wrong for the day. I know they do a lot that is right too but it is almost unbelievable. I won’t make this a rant about hospitals. What I wanted to impart is that living with gratitude in the face of all this is not easy. But, as my visiting pastor said yesterday at church, “you have to decide to _____ (fill in the blank).” I have decided that I want to live with gratitude so I make every effort to look for things daily that I can be thankful for. So, for my brother Bobby I am grateful that you are my brother. I am grateful that you have a wonderful family. I am grateful that you have had a career making music, which has been your life’s passion. I am grateful that you are not in pain. I am grateful that the doctors are trying to do what is best for you. I am grateful that I can come sit with you and discuss your decisions about treatment. Now, for my daily mantra— I am glad to be alive and healthy. I am grateful that I have a loving family. I am glad that I have a job that I enjoy. Life is good. Lucky I live Maui.

Pastor Makuakane I am so glad that you spoke yesterday. I hope others will decide to live with gratitude and despite challenges look for ways to be grateful.

Live aloha.

Shirley

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The greatest gift I received from reading “Over the Rainbow Bridge” is a comforting peace about death and dying. Death is not an ending, but the beginning of a new phase. Powerful. Thanks Cory for your wisdom.Through the life of this 9 year old boy, I learned more insights about heaven and the afterlife than I ever learned by attending church. I don’t know who I’m more impressed with—Cory, a young man who even in death was the most positive, inspirational person I never met; or his mother Shirley who had the courage to really list… Read more
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I just have to tell you that your book has become a part of me.  I have milked it by only reading it when I was alone and quiet.  I feel I know little Cory now.  It has been a privilege getting to know his sweet spirit.  Thank you so much for sharing a small part of him with me.  I would love to see the video that was made.  Bless your heart for the pure love and strength that you instilled in your sweet baby.  Cory is a true gift to all who get to share his story.
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This book on coping is such a gift. It’s a quick, concise read that any busy, grief stricken person can benefit from. Knowing that the writer has experienced grief is powerful, she has walked down the lonely, painful journey herself. Thank you for this book as we grieve the loss of my beautiful mother-in-law!
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The written word can be very powerful and moving, and every so often there is a book that can truly change lives; Over the Rainbow Bridge is that important. It is a true account of a heroic child’s mission in his short life to teach us about love and life, that one and both are the same: eternal. In our culture, where death is almost a taboo subject, Over the Rainbow Bridge will help us confront our fears and embrace life in a “down to earth” way. It is accessible, a comfort to read, as if being embraced by an old friend.
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