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Shirley Enebrad
Author, Speaker & Grief Counselor



When You Feel Like You Didn’t Appreciate Them Enough
There’s a quiet kind of regret that doesn’t announce itself. It doesn’t come crashing in like grief did in the beginning. It slips in later… softer, but somehow just as powerful. A woman in a lace-sleeved sweater quietly rests on a blanket of purple blossoms, blending with the serene beauty of nature. It shows up in ordinary moments. When you pass something, they would have loved. When you reach for the phone without thinking. When you remember something small… and suddenly

Shirley Enebrad
1 day ago3 min read


When Your Last Contact Was an Argument
There is a particular kind of pain that doesn’t just sit in your heart—it echoes. A lively business meeting unfolds as colleagues engage in a heated discussion, with one person expressing their point passionately, while serious consideration is evident on the faces of others. It whispers late at night. It shows up in quiet moments. It asks a question you can’t answer: “Why did that have to be the last thing?” If your last interaction with someone you loved was an argument,

Shirley Enebrad
May 253 min read


The Most Important Grief Advice I’ve Ever Learned
After decades of leading grief workshops, sitting with people in their darkest moments, and walking through my own losses… I’ve learned something that may surprise you. A serene view of a turquoise glacial lake surrounded by snow-capped mountains, with vibrant red canoes dotting the water under a cloudy sky. Most people think grief advice is supposed to be profound. Something wise. Something that makes the pain easier. But the most important thing I’ve learned is much simpler

Shirley Enebrad
May 173 min read
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