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Shirley Enebrad
Author, Speaker & Grief Counselor



The Second Year of Grief Might Be Harder Than the First
The first year after losing someone you love is often a blur. You may be operating on shock, numbness, and pure survival instinct. There are arrangements to make, paperwork to handle, belongings to sort through—or avoid—and an endless series of “firsts” to face. The first birthday without them. The first holiday. The first anniversary. Scenic view of lush greenery and modern buildings under a clear blue sky, with a mountain range in the backdrop creating a picturesque landsca

Shirley Enebrad
6 days ago2 min read


Grieving Someone Who Is Still Alive
There are so many reasons to grieve, and not all of them involve death. Sometimes we grieve someone who is still very much alive but is no longer part of our life. A vibrant rose garden in full bloom on a sunny day, showcasing a variety of colorful roses surrounded by lush greenery and manicured pathways. I once had a best friend who helped me through one of the most difficult times of my life—the five and a half years of my son’s diagnosis and grueling cancer treatments. We

Shirley Enebrad
Sep 163 min read


When Your Grief Starts to Lift
The day you suddenly realize you’re doing okay can be surprisingly bittersweet. You may find yourself doing things that once felt impossible after your loved one died. Maybe you’re laughing again, making plans, enjoying an afternoon, or simply getting through the day without grief sitting so heavily on your shoulders. The tranquil scene evokes a sense of peace and wonder, inviting one to explore the beauty of nature. It may take months to reach this point. It may take years.

Shirley Enebrad
Sep 92 min read
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